Safety Guidelines

Your safety matters

KiteMail is built for love — not harm. Please read this before you fly.

Important

KiteMail is designed for genuine personal messages between people who share a real connection. It is not a tool for harassment, unwanted contact, or any form of harm. Misuse will result in permanent removal.

How security works

KiteMail uses a layered system to make sure only the right person reads your message:

  • Name + Nickname + Birthday — the combination of three is extremely rare to match accidentally.
  • 3 personal questions, 2 correct answers needed — these must be things only your beloved knows from your shared life.
  • Sender's birthday hidden — used only as an optional filter, never shown to the receiver.

This means a stranger cannot read a message that isn't meant for them — unless the questions were written carelessly (e.g. "what colour is the sky?").

Do

  • Write from a place of genuine feeling
  • Use questions only your beloved can answer
  • Respect if they don't respond or reply
  • Use hints to help without giving away answers
  • Be honest — even if it's hard to say

Don't

  • Send threatening or harmful content
  • Use easy questions anyone could guess
  • Send to someone who has asked you not to contact them
  • Use this to stalk, harass, or manipulate
  • Share someone else's kite details

On anonymity

The anonymous option exists for shy hearts, not cowardly ones. It's for the person who can't bring themselves to say "it's me" — but wants their beloved to feel something real. Please don't use anonymity to say things you wouldn't say with your name attached.

Unsolicited contact

If someone has clearly expressed they do not want contact from you, please respect that. A kite can be a beautiful thing — but sending one to someone who has explicitly asked you not to reach out is a form of harassment, not romance. KiteMail supports reporting of such misuse.

Content we prohibit

Any message containing threats, hate speech, sexual content directed at minors, explicit non-consensual material, or content designed to harm will be removed. We reserve the right to remove any content and block any sender found in violation of these guidelines.

Report misuse

If a kite drifted your way and made you feel unsafe, threatened, or harassed — please contact us. We take reports seriously and will act swiftly. You can reach us at kitemailspace@gmail.com.